The mindset of our time and civilization is characterized by the grownup’s tendency to conceal exactly what is bad from their youngsters. Another very dangerous tendency that characterizes our historical time is to try giving a good appearance to exactly what is bad.
Today we believe that the fears and also the superstitions that were part of the state of mind of older civilizations were an outcome of their lack of knowledge. We want to believe that nothing is really bad; closing our eyes before the dangers that threaten our happiness.
This attitude is very dangerous. We have to open our eyes and clearly see what is bad, to ensure that we may avoid suffering. If we try to give a positive spin on what misbehaves, we will distort the truth. This distortion will provoke even worse distortions in the future. In then end, we will deal with anguish.
In order to be a sensible parent, you have to show to your children the ugly honest truth as it is, without paint it with beautiful colors. If you fail to show them that there are bad repercussions in life, they will become victims of other people’s bad intentions.
You have to focus especially to the effect that your own example has on your children’s personalities and lives. You are their hero. You need to be a positive shining example in their lives due to the fact that they mimic your habits.
I equate dreams for everyone when they need an immediate dream interpretation. I also provide them with psychotherapy. In addition my clients send me their short autobiography in addition to their dreams. When I evaluate it, I often verify that their parents are irresponsible. Those that have mental problems always have uncaring, unreasonable, and also cool moms and dads.
Many parents entirely hide from their youngsters the bad aspect of sexual relationships outside of marriage. Other parents never care regarding teaching their children that they need to never accept having sexual relationships with married men or females. The consequences of this negligence are very bitter. Their children not just get engaged in bad relationships, they accept immorality. They acquire grave mental illnesses due to the fact that they have many traumatic feels.
Parents that don’t educate their children that what is bad in life can simply bring future disasters, are not prepping their kids for successfully facing the numerous difficulties of life. Worst still is their bad examples as duty models in their youngsters’s lives. When youngsters have parents that don’t respect their family, they will have serious problems in their relationships also.
You educate your children how they should interact just before the numerous problems of life with your own attitude and behavior. If you are unable to provide a good example, they will repeat your mistakes.
Jot down your dreams in a desire diary and adhere to the unconscious guidance included in the desire messages. You’ll learn the best ways to be wise, and also give the best live example to your children. They will therefore be well prepared for effectively facing all life challenges.