With several years of feel and also monitoring, I can tell you with certainty that yelling at toddlers is simply ineffective. In reality, it is counter productive.
Generally a Mother or Father yells at a toddler because the young child is not behaving as they expect. Repeated asking results in the same “bad behavior” and eventually the parent becomes frustrated. The frustration leads to the parent raising his/her voice. The entire process is not specifically reasonable, yet it is also unfortunately very common.
Raising your voice may be necessary on occasion, but it should not be the first tool that you take out of your parenting tool kit. If you yell frequently, you simply educate your child that this is regular actions for you, as well as your youngster ignores it. Even worse, your toddler could grow up learning that it’s perfectly acceptable to yell. Do you want this?
If yelling is not effective, then what works? Simple. I suggest that all parents find out a vast type of communication methods that really get real results and reduce parenting stress. For example, it’s fairly easy to turn almost any “problem” into a game that you can have fun with your toddler. All you need to do is reframe the situation via clever use of language. You may claim, “Toby, I wonder how fast you’ll be able to obtain your socks and footwear on. Will you be able to get it done before I go get my car keys, or am I going to be faster than you?” This is a whole lot simpler compared to (shrieking) “Toby, get your socks and footwear’s on today!”.
I educate a broad range of these skills to parents, and they truly do work. Whether you discover them from me or develop your own collection of tools, I highly suggest learning a brand-new habits to change the habitual shouting.